The Juice Is Loose About Secret Lounge


The Juice Is Loose About Secret Lounge


Victoria Secret once was a secret, and like Secret Lounge is a secret no more.
I was blessed to have been asked to cover this event, and I jumped at the chance. See Secret Lounge is my new home that will address my night life need. It has been 10 years since this cozy spot came on the scene. After talking to JC I began to wonder why the intimate spot did not come on my radar grid until JCINTIME took over the helm as the promoter. Maybe the owner wanted the right energy to make this club really pop, and JC has done just that. You think the fact JC is sexy as hell is a contributing factor in the success of Secret Lounge. Might it have been he has a great personality? A combination! After all he has Talent, connections, great looks, and a golden personable but professional attitude. I’d bet on the total package!
 The house was full, and so many came out to celebrate the success of JC’s first year at the helm and making it happen, and bringing in a packed house every week. His Hot & Sexy Saturdays made it to my short list after scanning other clubs to see if the vibe was the right fit for a man in my mid age. I know I can compete with the younger community, but why should I have to. I use to be a club kid, and all that includes. I have had my day, and had a ball. From The Garage with Larry Lavan, Better Days with Tee Scott, Mid Town 43, and all the way to Tracks NYC. When Tracks closed it bought to an end the joy I use to have in tripping the New York City light fantastic. Those were the days that and just like nostalgic clothing it has a habit of coming back into style. So does the Boogie gene, and baby I’ve got the boogie in my butt bad, and want to paint the town once again. Not Red but colors I identify with. Pride color of Red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple!
 As I began to settle into my new spot I realized it is not the dancing I am after, but more so the music and being around people who are having a good time. Times have changed on the club scene! Back in the day we were always coming up with new dances, and when the entire club was doing the same dance to some hot tunes which really made for a great party. (Party over here). Now a day’s people are simple doing their own thing, and free style has become the norm.

The front gives an instant feeling of security from the minute you walk up to the ropes where you are greeted by a muscle bound, hard core, no shit Sherlock security who looks like he takes no shit from no one, and to disrupt the positive flow would be met with swift action. Bam Bam checking ID’s to make sure those entering are of age so the club will be put in no danger. ChefLoveJone stamping you for reentry and the party is on.
 DJ IRONBOUND was spinning the beats, and making those in attendance dance work up a serious sweat. I am looking forward to one day featuring him on my podcast show, and if I am really lucky maybe he will become a resident DJ I can rotate in on a regular.
The bartenders poured strong drinks! Not that watered shit you would find at other clubs, bars, and lounges. My personal favorite is a Strawberry Long Island Iced Tea. The bartenders are a pleasant sight to see. Wearing Jeans without shirts would be an incentive to keep coming back to wet you whistle. Brice, Mark, and Kenny make me drunk just too look at them.  My only concern is those who drive, but are sure people who drive either designate a sober driver or abstains all together, and all should drink in moderation. Haan is another employee I met but only spent a few minutes with, but his personality was just as warm, and welcoming as all the others.
 I love Secret Lounge if for no other reason how sensitive it is to the GLBT community on a whole. This included the Lesbian population as well! The environment was designed for the comfort of us all, and was made clear to me by the sexy erotic dancers both male and female. It has always been a goal to search for a place where both the Gay & Lesbian community which is one in the same community could go and have a good time in the company of their counter parts. Secret Lounge has attempted to do just that, and given time I am sure the Lesbian population will increase.
 The erotic being I am loves to see men wearing next to nothing shake their azzes in my face. (Got a dollar? See me dance) With very well built bodies, washboard abs, tasty bulges, and butts the freak in me just imagines burying my face all in. The dancer almost makes me want to watch wearing bib to soak my drool as their well crafted bodies moved across the bar. I even gave a really good look at the female dancer as she made her booty bounce, and butt cheeks clap. Baby! These dancers really get my Juices flowing, and I look forward to going back to continue allowing all of juice to get loose.
 JC also has great talents to come though, and show love to their audiences. Most recently Jensen Atwood was in the house. If you think he looks good on the hit series Noah’s Arc, and Jumping the Broom The movie you should see him in person. I was blessed enough JC helped me to get an interview with the Gay community’s heart throb. Every time I turn JC is promoting some new event, and they all catch my eye. Unfortunately I am only man, and can’t go to everything. The beauty is my heart is always there, and wishing I could be there too.
Secret Lounge is my club, bar, and lounge and I invite you to come check it out for yourself. You have mind and can make the decision for yourself.
If you have an event or party you want to have hit up my boi JC at www.jcintime.com


Secret Lounge is located at 525 West 29th Street
Big thanks to Da Professor, Dwight O’Neil, Haywood & the rest of Dwight’s crew. Even Drama Queenz was in the house
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Age Is Merely A Number

Age Is Merely A Number

The last time I decided to celebrate my birthday I was turning that milestone 40 year old point that most men dreads. It came it went, and I got over it.
This is the year I turned 44 and is the half way point to my next milestone birthday which is 50 years young. Another year to dread should I be blessed enough to reach it. I say young because you are only as old as you feel. Plus I am into younger guys, and the youthful disposition and attitude which once was I. Being I am no longer as young as I use to be I live through the eyes of the younger. Please don’t get me wrong I am no cradle bobber, and prefer to be with one who is of adult age, and I do mean well into their 20’s. I am no dirty old man. I shared the life I lived with an older man who helped me grow in the adult I am. I could not be who I am without the guidance of the older man. That life included me being with a man at least 20 years older them I was. See I was absent of a father figure, and grew up in a house that was not only dysfunctional, but a family that had only one parent. My mother who played the roles of both mother and father! This left me and my brother basically to raise ourselves. That is not a shot at my late mother because as a single mother she had no choice but to work to keep a roof over our head, food in our stomachs, and clothing on our backs. She did what she had to do to support her family and it is just that simple as that.

Unfortunately I was the target of a mad man who beat me, sexual abused me, and the effects of his actions has lasted a life time even to this day. The sad thing is it was called sibling rivalry which is a greater set of total bullshit. This went on for 10 years! From the age of 6 to the age of 16, and I am one strong mutha fucka as a result of it. See what does not kill you only makes you stronger. I’m a strong black man because I survived it. I can’t describe the things that have been done to me by this person. The most evil and self proclaimed misunderstood person you would never want to meet. The scares both physical & mental are still there, and will serve as a reminder for the rest of my life. Again if it was not for those experiences I could not be the loving man I am today.

This birthday was one to remember, and really opened my eyes to who really are my friends. Big ups to my sister Dawn, my network assistant Da Professor, Author Donald Pebbles, and even a shout to Sean who left me & Da Professor hanging for the ride to the club with the cake. We got there anyway! Special thanks to Maurice Runea, and A few of my neighbors were on hand for the cocktail party at my apartment. Recording artist Jesse O came out to bless this event, and he needs to know the special place in my heart he holds. Darel a new friend from Facebook  & his friend was a welcome surprise and he celebrated his birthday as well I want to show special luv to JC of JCintime Presents. He host my party, gave me a guest list of 25 people, and promoted the party as if it was any other special event at Secret Lounge conveniently located in midtown at 525 West 29th Street between 10th & 11th Avenues . I felt almost like a celebrity sipping on the BBOP Banger which was a delicious strawberry Long Island Ice Tea drink named in my honor. My co worker Shirley J & her GF’s came out to bless the occasion. Know you know the str8 girls love to hang with Homo’s. They had a great time and loved the sexual lap dances they received
 from the sexy well built GoGo Boy with his rippling muscles, and a bulge so tasty looking I gagged just looking at it. JC books Parties and; really rolls out the red carpet to make you event special, and one to remember. So hit him up, and make it happen. I know he will!

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I have exclude those that had other things to do, and though enough of me to call, and give me love to minimize my disappointment. You know who you are, and I thank you for your support.

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