Unity Picnic 2017

I had the extreme pleasure of attending the 4^th Annual Unity Picnic at the Christopher Street Pier.

This event was a big success but who can expect anything less when the team NYC Black Pride members puts their heads together to make magic With Lee Soulja, KoKo, Redd, and Frankie Paradise doing this kind of joint venture everyone is bound to have a great time.

Lee who sits as the executive Director of the NYC Black Pride committee which I have the pleasure of sitting on along with so many others to make thing happen every year for the NYC Black Pride season. It’s true joy to work with this team to bring a full week of events. Lee Soulja is so much more than the ED of NYC Black Pride but he also heads the House of Soulja and with his housemates continue to make strong statements in the house lives matter to further this movement. Lee also promotes many events throughout the year, and is incredible with his visuals costumes that catches the eyes of all the lay them upon him. The love he has for his community can never be in question.

“Let The Music Play” was not just a catchy title by Shannon but a tune that would make people get up and dance back in the day. Today Frankie Paradise who was always a well employed DJ on the NYC…… scene played tracks from that era all the up until what’s popular today. Knowing him over the years has been one of my greatest pleasures.

Red Desmond Thomas is someone new I’ve just started knowing as we both sit on the NYC Black Pride committee together, and I can say he’s always will to stand in support of his community, and has strong ties. During the Unity Picnic all Ii could was him doing everything he could do to make the event go smooth, and smooth is just what it was. He quotes on the events page these words, and I can’t agree with him more.

"There is no such thing as a "broken family." Family is family, and is not determined by marriage certificates, divorce papers, and or adoption documents. Families are made in the heart. The only time family becomes null is when those ties in the heart are cut. If you cut those ties, those people are not your family. If you make those ties, those people are your family. And if you hate those ties, those people will still be your family because whatever you hate will always be with you. [C. JOYBELL]"

With just about 300 family members in attendance from all generations within the community everybody had a great time, and enjoy one another as a family. I have a great time, and loved seeing all the legend that were present along with so many people I have not seen in years…… I love meeting new people, and look forward to developing great relationships with them as part of my extended family. See you next year!

BeBop W/Pride & Bdot Dillenger

Pop A Top

Pop A Top

Tops can be some very interesting men!

Someone once told me if you get hit up by a top that mean he is not a true top. What is a true top? One who has never been fucked (Virgin to the dick), one who has but made a conscience chose not to get fucked, or is a true top someone who is afraid of dick because they know it’s painful when getting dicked. You know the ones that doesn’t know what he is doing & think their serving up some good dick. As many people as I have asked over the years I always get a different answer from each. I would have to guess everyone has a different opinion to this question.

The very last top that came to visit me claimed he has never been penetrated, but curious to know what it felt like to be fucked. I was more them happy to accommodate him. I first had to ask him if he knew how to prepare himself to take dick? No was his answer! Interesting bottoms never really tell tops the preparation that goes into allowing them to get fucked. Well that is if you’re a clean bottom. Many bottoms have self-respect and won’t paint a top. What’s interesting is some top like to be painted! They are few and far between but do exist. I handed him a fleet & told him what to do.

He took an hour in the bathroom to clean out and get freshly showered, and he looked so good walking towards me with his big black dick hanging and swinging from side to side. Made me pause for a hot moment and wonder myself what it might feel like to take dick again. I have not been touched in 34 years but back in the day I did enjoy the touch of a man. Those were the day but long gone.

In conclusion if you’re a top and make the first move and hit up this top top you should be ready to take his dick. If you are the top who wants to pop a top you might be in for a long and hard battle for I know what side of the fence I roll on, and until the one steps up and does what it takes to get it it’s not going happen. At the end of the day to get this is not impossible but will take work, and if you not willing to put in the work you will never pop this top.

BeBop W/Pride

Big Dick Chasers

Tops beware: 

In my life I have come across many types of bottoms from both sides of the spectrum. Bottoms who had no walls cause they took more big dicks in their time and the anal canal was worn out. I call them Holland Tunnel bottoms. the hole so wide, and the canal so deep a top can only go through the motions and hope they have the sensitivity enough to reach a satisfying climax. 

On the other side of that spectrum are those bottoms who are mesmerized but big, thick and long dicks which they think they can take but sadly was rarely the case! Still they try, try, and try again.

Most often to no fault of the top that fall sucker to this type of bottom and are mostly left unsatisfied, and frustrated. Sometimes the tops are angry by this type of behavior which continues, and will force fuck the bottom which sets them out for criminal charges. No means no but when does no really yes? How does one even begin to make that determination? Risky shit if you ask me!

Accountability: Who holds the bottom accountable for teasing tops to the point he becomes aggressive, and take the azz until he nutz. No one hold those bottom responsible when they clearly set the scenario up and place the top in that situation. Legally no means no except when it mean yes, but law enforcement will not see the entire picture. When it's reported which is not often the bottom is viewed as the victim when in actuality it's really the top who has been victimized. in cases where the top is prosecuted on rape charges, convicted, sentence, and jailed. Upon release must be registered as a sex offender, and his is changed for ever.

the most simple solution that will make every one happy is for bottoms to chase after dicks they know is a good fit for them. too many times I have encountered bottoms who want my big black dick but know coming in they can take it. i have been left so frustrated. not by one but each time I eencounter this situation I grow more and more frustrated, and even angry at times. The end result for me is a total turn off to random sex partners who just want instant sexual gratification which no longer even excites me. I am glad I know the law as well as I do, and never take it too far that could place my life, my world in danger. I have how ever thought of pinning a bottom down and making them take this dick until I get my satisfaction. I exercised consequential thinking which  always made me change my mind.  

Their are more bottoms in this world then their are tops in my opinion, and if I keep searching I may one day find the right one that will stay and build something wonderful. Until that happens I will no doubt come across the sames frustrating bottoms I continue to encounter in this mission to find true love. (If it even still exist)  

BeBop

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